Lingam massage, the unbearable lightness of gesture...

Lingam massage: Two or three things I know about it.

Hello everyone,

Some people still believe that a lingam massage is just a watered-down name for a "happy ending" type of massage.

In fact, although at first glance these two massages may seem very similar, this is not the case.

It's a fact that the lingam massage is a light, pleasurable massage.

But you'll also see in this article that lingam massage, combined with other practices, can do much more than give you pleasure, especially if you suffer from erectile dysfunction or premature or rapid ejaculation. But first, let's go back to basics...


What is a Lingam massage?

Simply put, Lingam massage is a tantric, sensual massage that focuses on the Lingam.
"Lingam" is the Sanskrit word for penis.

For the record...

Legend has it that Shiva appeared naked before a group of yogis meditating in the forest.

To punish them, Shiva decided to seduce their wives.
In revenge, the ascetics emasculated Shiva, but when his lingam fell to the ground, the entire universe was plunged into darkness.
The yogis, understanding Shiva's power, begged him to restore light to the world.

Shiva agreed, on condition that everyone worshipped him in the form of the lingam, (a big Shiva ego)...

No wonder some tantra practitioners, men and women alike, have heads like melons.

Well, in the meantime, that lucky Shiva has phallic statues dedicated to him in temples all over the world... Lucky man!

The Lingam massage is, as you'll have gathered, a pure celebration of the penis.
It is designed not only to give pleasure, but also to put into practice tantric techniques that will help the recipient harness his sexual energy, enabling him to increase his control over his lingam, just like Shiva.


How to enjoy a lingam massage?

To enjoy this unique massage to the full, I encourage you to let go of all goals and passively experience each moment of the massage as it comes.

Breathe and try to be fully present in the moment. Concentrate on your breathing, making sure it's slow and deep.

Allow yourself to relax completely as the massage progresses, as this is the best way to maximize the benefits of the lingam massage.

As you'll notice, your sexual energy ebbs and flows during the massage - it's natural and expected.

Thanks to this long lingam massage, sexual energy expands and circulates freely throughout your body. I use my intuition to detect your limits and slowly build your sexual pleasure "with you".


To ejaculate or not to ejaculate?

Whether or not a lingam massage includes ejaculation depends on the practitioner.

It's common for tantric therapists not to propose ejaculation at the end.

Instead, the emphasis is on maintaining sexual energy in the body and moving it from the genital area to other parts of the body.

As far as I'm concerned, I tend to work with clients who want to learn to have full-body orgasms, or to last longer, and so I don't usually offer ejaculation as part of this service.

But if ejaculation does occur - and this can happen, for example, with those who have only recently begun to experiment with this massage, or with those who are doing it as part of a therapy designed to last longer - it will not be the result of active masturbation.

On the other hand, in certain circumstances, such as when a client has difficulty ejaculating, it may be part of the therapy.


Orgasm vs. ejaculation: lingam massage helps you tell the difference

While for most people, orgasm and ejaculation go hand in hand, they are in fact two distinct things, and all tantric practitioners know this.

While orgasm is a matter of energy, ejaculation is a physiological reflex.

You can't control your ejaculation. On the other hand, you can perfectly control your arousal, and therefore last longer. More on this below.

In a Tantric context, by ejaculating during orgasm, we're emptying ourselves of vital energies which it would otherwise be preferable to leave inside to innervate the body.

Personally, I think this kind of statement is a bit exaggerated. But we're not going to debate that here.


Experiencing orgasmic retention, not as simple as that

If not, there are indeed techniques for stopping ejaculation while reaching orgasm, thus conserving the energy inside.

Mind you, far be it from me to discourage the patient, but these are complicated techniques for a novice, techniques you won't master in a few weeks... I'd be tempted to add, or even in a few months.

Boileau wrote"20 fois sur le métier remettez votre ouvrage"...

Well, if you want to experience orgasmic retention, you'll need to practice and keep that little phrase in mind at all times...

But for some, it's worth the effort...


The lingam massage to last longer

Excelling at orgasmic retention overnight can be insurmountable. And it can quickly become a challenge for the man.

But the rule when it comes to challenges is the same for everyone. START SMALL.

You don't set out to climb Everest if you're already struggling up the hill next door.

That's why learning how to control your arousal so that you can last longer seems to me to be a more affordable challenge, and one that I'm convinced is within every man's reach.

But lingam massage alone cannot solve problems of premature or rapid ejaculation... Even if it's a good start.

Effective techniques do exist...

Premature or rapid ejaculation sufferers are often perplexed by the multitude of therapies and products available on the Internet.

However, there are a number of techniques which, when combined, can delay ejaculation.

By combining therapeutic lingam massage, tantric breathing, sex-body techniques and conscious masturbation, you'll be able to last longer.

Having worked with clients who have difficulty managing their sexual arousal, I know that this method works.

To achieve lasting arousal control, it's essential to learn how to integrate and coordinate these skills into specific, targeted exercises.

My 4-module audiovisual training program "Un pénis sans complexe" is ideal for perfecting your training.

It will be back online very soon, with a few updates. The coaching sessions associated with this program will also resume.

I'll come back to this in a future article.

Thank you for reading
NADINE