Frequently asked questions

Discover the answers to your questions about tantra and tantric bodywork (massage, coaching) at my institute.

- What is tantra massage?

Tantric massage opens you up to touch, energy and breath. It improves your confidence and self-esteem.
During a Tantric massage, your sexual energy is sensually awakened and spreads throughout your body, provoking a complete bodily response, new sensations, a new understanding of the potential for pleasure within you.

A Tantric massage gently introduces you to the main keys of Tantra, which is always about deepening your sexual potential. You'll be gently guided to breathe deeply, relax, stay present to yourself and use your imagination and breath to circulate this powerful healing energy through your body.

A Tantric massage honors you in your wholeness. Heart, soul, mind, emotions, body, spirit and sexuality.
Tantra is truly the art of relaxation during arousal, and this is what opens up new and extraordinary possibilities within your own body.
 

- Why have a tantric massage?

Tantric massage helps to soothe the body and mind. Those who receive this massage achieve complete mental peace, emotional stability and physical relaxation.

The basic aim of this massage is to encourage the recipient to disengage their mind. Achieving this state of total acceptance and awareness is the aim of this massage.

Since it's difficult for us to achieve mental calm, disengaging the mind is what we need to do.

Tantric massage puts you in tune with your body.
Indeed, Tantric massage gives you an overall sense of well-being, improves your body's and mind's ability to fight stress, and also reinforces your body's innate potential to remain in perfect health.

Tantric massage detoxifies, relaxes, eliminates stress and restores your body's natural balance.
Tantric massage engages all your organs, including the Lingam (for men) and the Yoni (for women) , to bring you to a state of complete sensual, physical and emotional bliss!
 
 

- What's the difference between erotic massage and tantric massage?

Erotic and tantric massages may share certain similarities, but they offer distinct experiences rooted in different intentions and practices.

Erotic massage: Erotic massage focuses on physical pleasure and sexual arousal.

The goal of an erotic massage is orgasm, climax or sexual release. This experience encompasses sexual expression in a safe environment, offering stress relief and pampering.

Tantric massage : Tantric massage transcends physical pleasure to achieve deep transformation and healing. It is a holistic practice focusing on energy flow, relaxation and expansion.

Through gentle touch, energy work and muscle relaxation, the practitioner supports the body's innate healing capacities. Tantric massage focuses on restoring energy channels and clearing blockages, thus promoting vitality and spiritual connection.

Whereas erotic massages give priority to pleasure and sexual release, Tantric massage gives priority to awakening vital energy from within. It does not seek external stimuli for arousal, but facilitates the natural flow of sexual energy throughout the body, promoting healing and self-discovery.
 

Can I take a shower before or after the massage?

The living room has a shower and toilet.

You can of course shower before and after the massage.
Shower time is not deducted from the massage.
 

I'm a new customer, but I don't want to book on the payment platform. Can I pay you in cash on the day of the appointment?

Unfortunately, this is not possible, whatever the argument.

- What is my Tantric massage practice?

I focus my massage primarily on the body.
As the body is of course linked to the psyche, each person will find his or her own path and interpretation.

Everyone arrives with what is, and is nourished by this exchange and their own bodily sensations.

For me, tantric massage is above all a massage of full awareness, a massage in connection with the other.

It's an energy that builds throughout the massage, an energy that opens up the body and lets go of all the senses.

My massage starts very slowly and adapts to the other person's body and energy. My tantric touch is gentle, enveloping the whole body, an almost cocooning touch reminiscent of childhood. 
 

- Is discussion time deducted from massage time?

The time we take to get to know each other (around 15 minutes) is not deducted from the massage time.
 

- Is there a ritual before the Tantra massage session?

No, the whole session is devoted to Tantric bodywork.

In India, rituals are performed by priests with a lifetime's training behind them.

I'm neither a high priestess nor a goddess, and I don't perform rituals (Namaste, Tibetan bowl, dance etc.).

So no dancing, no bowls, just my beautiful celestial hands ;-)
 

- What can I expect from a tantric massage session?

It's important to approach Tantra massage with a sense of openness, curiosity and without attachment to a specific goal.
While the massage may offer healing benefits and the possibility of an orgasm, these are not the central part or goal of the experience.

My sessions begin with a short pre-massage talk.
During this, of course, we'll get to know each other, I'll answer any questions you may have, and I'll set boundaries with you if necessary. This discussion ensures a shared understanding and lays the foundations for a comfortable experience.

Massage encompasses the whole body, and while it may involve genital contact within the boundaries you set, rest assured that nothing happens without your explicit consent. Respecting your limits at all times is a fundamental principle throughout the session.
 

- What should I do during my session?

Relax, surrender and concentrate on your breathing.
Experience the inner calm that lies within each of us.
I encourage you to forget about goals. This will help to calm the mind, and you'll naturally fall into a kind of meditative state.
 

- Are you naked during the massage?

Only you will be naked during the massage.

- Can I touch you during the massage?

The massages I offer invite you to remain passive.
That said, if a spontaneous impulse pushes you to place a hand on me to welcome a more intense emotion, know that any "right and well-directed" gesture will always be well received.

Do you practice prostate massage?

No

- Is there a finishing touch to tantric massage?

Orgasm is not an end in itself in Tantra massage.
As such, genital areas are massaged, but not aroused or masturbated.
For men, if ejaculation does occur, it will be welcomed with kindness, in the same way as all other manifestations of the body...